DO YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN?

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his is a hard question especially to a modern woman.  Nowadays women have others priorities instead children.  First of all, the profession and them to enjoy its benefits as travel and buy things that they always had wished for example a car, a house and to be in fashion.  We have four points of view about to have a family with children.  First, a woman who wish to have a baby someday, after that a woman whose plan is to adopt a child, then, a young mother who has a son and finally, a woman who priority is not exactly to be a mother.

The first woman wishes to have a child someday because a kid is important to a human being in order to grow up, to be responsible, and to realize the true love.  The child’s love is pure and unlimited; therefore to have that experience is a right for all people.  A child is joy, innocence, and proud; however, it is a fact that children are a big responsibility for their parents; furthermore, it is a challenge that is important not only for the parents but to other members of the family too. On the other hand, it is important for the society because it needs positive leaders; then, we can contribute raising good people who help the society to create a better future.

The second woman thinks that to be mother is a blessing from God, but in my personal case, I have a son and I do not want more because I think it's the perfect time in my life to dedicate to my career and enjoy my marriage. I believe that children are required to experience the wonder of being a mother but I definitely think that a woman should have success in all areas of the life, but I consider important to spend time studying and be a professional and why not, also enjoy personal life and enjoy traveling and visiting new places because as mothers invest much time with our children and I think, need to experiment devoted to other important areas of our lives for that reason I do not want more children, I believe one maternal experience is enough.

Some women choose having children, but unfortunately they cannot conceive.  Science offer alternatives for these women to be able to have children, such as the in vitro fertilization or insemination, but still in many cases this process is unsuccessful due to unknown reasons. At this point of the process, where almost all options are exhausted, many people ignore the possibility of adoption. Adoption is a process in which families choose to integrate into their lives a child who has been abandoned by his real parents. Those children live in these facilities waiting to have a home and a family.  They are human beings with big hearts waiting to have a mom that shelters them at night, a father who plays with them and even siblings who become best friends. Given the above and it would be a nice dream that households without children value the adoption as a method of giving a child a life that is full of love and hopes.

Finally, not always the realization of a woman is motherhood. Today the society in which we live teaches women not to be chauvinistic and the importance of both professionally and personally realization. Travel, learn languages, learn about other cultures, be professional, have management positions or strengthen their own business, political participation, the couple and the many forms of love have become priorities for the modern woman. Having a child is simply another step in the realization of a woman and not the equally important for every woman, as much depend on their priorities and their life project.

It is up to each woman how to prioritize your life and decide that is what will make it happy. Today we have the freedom to choose to become mothers or not, there are many methods of contraception for a woman to enjoy sex without the risk of an unwanted pregnancy and that wonderful moment in the life of a woman like many others come when She feels she is prepared to function in this field.

 

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