SELF ESTEEM

Self esteem is essential and is the basis of positive attitude on the way to live.  It is a part of the human personality.  It depends on the image that you have about yourself.

It is very important because it affects how you think, act and how you relate to other people.  It allows you to live life with all your potential.

The Self Esteem depends on the way that you grew up.  I mean the self esteem comes from the way that you lived your childhood.  If you developed a strong personality, you would build up a good image about yourself.

I think the role of the parents is very important in the development of the self esteem of their children.  If children have parents who recognize the good skills of their kids, thet would have a high self esteem.

Parents  have to motivate their kids to do sports, learn musica, paint or other kinds of arts in order to create a high self esteem in them.

People could have a low self esteem.  It means poor confidence and it causes negative thoughts.  It means that you are likely to give up easily rather than face challenges and it has a direct bearing on your hapiness and well-being.

A person who has a low self esteem has a poor image about himself and for that it is not easy for him to get his goals.

To have a low self esteem is a problem because a person who has this situation it is very hard to believe in himself  or trust the decisions that he takes.

Actually a low self esteem is dangerous because you could fall in depressing state.  This illness would affect you and your family.  Your job and your relationships turn complicated too.

Many people finish their own life because of a low self esteem.  They can not believe themselves.  They can not realize their skills and take this sad way.

High self esteem is the opposite.  If you have a high level of self esteem, you will be confident, happy, highly motivated and have the right attitude to succeed.

To have a high self esteem is very important to get your goals.  People who have a high self esteem are bold and can do everything that they want in their life.

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These following questions can help you to reflex about your own image:

• Do others respect what you do?  Do you?
• Do you believe you are successful?
• How do you see yourself?
• How do you feel about your strengths and weaknesses?
• Are you comparing yourself to others?
• What do you think of your social status?
• How do you relate to others?
• Can you make your own decisions?

  I think that to change your self esteem depends on your conviction.  If you have the necessity to feel better about your image, you have to change your thoughts.  You can begin doing the activities thay you enjoy.  You can do the activities you are talented at.  If you are a creativity person you would develop that.

Switch from a low self esteem to a high self esteem!  It is an attitude matter.

You are the owner of your life, of your thoughts and your feelings.